Ms. Typewriter

' Emotional abuse is as harmful as physical abuse." I never knew that someday I would be writing on this topic. But, Allah's plans are different.  I have seen many people ,specially woman going through emotional abuse. They keep quiet and suffer. They keep such an abusive relationship going.  Why do they do that? The answer is They are scared! They are scared of being judged. They are scared of being alone. They are scared because their parents would not be allowed to live a normal life. They are scared because their siblings would suffer. They are scared because they wouldn't be accepted in this society. They are scared because their children will be labelled with names. But the truth is if you are quiet when being abused, you are not going to gain anything. You are just giving them the chance to step over you and by losing your self worth. While the abuser keeps enjoying his life. He doesn't lose a penny.  At some point of my life, I was taunted for e

I have seen many women suffer. They are going through mental trauma, physical pain and much more. What's more worse is people treating them like everything is a woman's fault. If she has gone through a divorce, then its her fault because she didn't adjust to him and his family. If she is unmarried then again its her fault because she isn't a marriage material according to the boy's side. If she is without a child  then her life is living hell. Its her fault by 'default'.  If she is a working woman then its her fault because instead of looking after her children she is all behind her career. We live in a era where women are reaching heights. But at the same time woman aren't treated well. Let's understand each other. Its very sad that  when a woman is suffering and its often another woman who is criticising her and hurting her. If you cannot share somebody's sorrow, please don't be a reason for their sorrow. The world would have be