Kyunki saas bhi kabhi bahu thi

I have seen many women suffer. They are going through mental trauma, physical pain and much more. What's more worse is people treating them like everything is a woman's fault.

If she has gone through a divorce, then its her fault because she didn't adjust to him and his family.

If she is unmarried then again its her fault because she isn't a marriage material according to the boy's side.

If she is without a child  then her life is living hell. Its her fault by 'default'. 

If she is a working woman then its her fault because instead of looking after her children she is all behind her career.

We live in a era where women are reaching heights. But at the same time woman aren't treated well.

Let's understand each other. Its very sad that  when a woman is suffering and its often another woman who is criticising her and hurting her. If you cannot share somebody's sorrow, please don't be a reason for their sorrow.

The world would have being better a place if only a woman understood another woman. When I was young, there was a daily soap named 'Kyunki saas bhi kabhi bahu thi'. I always used to laugh at the title. But now I came to the meaning of it. Every mother in law wants her daughter in law to understand her. But never a mother in law understands a daughter in law. There may be few exceptions. She will do each and everything which her mother in law did to her! I hope I wouldn't be one too! It's like she is taking revenge from her saas by treating you like that! Phewww!!!

Every mother in law wants a perfect girl for her son. But she will never work for making her son perfect. She will never accept that she is flawed and so is her son. She wants her daughter in law to accept the new family like hers, but she will never accept her daughter in law like her own daughter. If her son's intellect gets high after marriage then its the daughter in law's fault. The mother in law should thank her because what she couldn't do in all these years, her daughter in law did it. She changed her son's attics and antics!

Its sad and disappointing that a woman is another woman's enemy. Let's help and support each other. Let's build a friendly environment by not expecting a daughter in law to be the ideal bahu which you have seen in those daily soaps. After all she is a human being with lots of flaws. Accept her flaw and she will accept you whole heartedly.

Hope I could say the same thing to my mother in law someday!