Happy anniversary

Five years into marriage and now I realise, marriage isn't easy. Its a compilation of trust issues, compromises, hot tears and some smiles here and there. 

Like every wife I do have a lot of complaints- you aren't the one whom I saw in my dreams. 

You aren't the one whom I wanted to love

You aren't the one who values me.

But still I cannot leave you. 

Marriage is such a relationship which comes without a handbook. Not all marriages are same. But I haven't seen a couple whose marriage is perfect. Does that even exist? I always wonder!

Five years back, on this day we were bound to each other with handcuffs. It is such an handcuff which doesn't have a key or you can say the key is thrown into an ocean. I will not lie ,but there were times when I wanted to give up and open the handcuff apart. But, something always stops me. Maybe marriage is such a relationship which cannot expressed in words. 

With a marriage, comes a lot of expectations. You always wanted me to fulfill your expectation. But did you ever fulfill mine? Look after my parents! Did you ever do the same with mine?

Love my sister and brother like your own! Did you ever do the same with mine?

Respect him because he is your husband! Did he ever think that I am his wife?

Don't wear it! I don't like it! Did you ever wear something because I liked it?

Marriage is neither a bed of roses nor full of thorns. Marriage is beautiful only if your take care of it like a plant and water it with love, care, respect and trust. 

Hope we would be together for many more years to come, to learn, understand and tolerate each other for the sake of nothing!