As this year comes to an end.....

I have felt like this year, 2021 has passed so very soon. Its like this year has come to an end in the blink of eye. But, this year was one  the hardest year of my life.
I have learned that no matter how hard you love someone , eventually they are going to give you such a pain which you will never forget for the rest of your life. Not all people are meant to stay in your life. Some are lessons and some become memories.

Your self worth should never be defined by the amount of people you have your life. Some stay for their benefit. When that's finished, they leave and you have nothing left to shed except tears. Your tears are valuable don't use it on such people. Its better to have a one genuine friend than ten fake friends. So don't worry if your friend circle is small. All you need is that one friend who you could trust and rely whenever needed in life.

Don't look at your life like a still water. Your life is like a ship which sails on the sea. It moves slowly and in its own pace, it will go through many storms and overcome it, but it will not give up. It will try to reach its destination. Never give up hope in your life. No matter how hard your struggles are, no matter how rough the sea is, no matter how dark the clouds are, never give up hope. When your right time comes, you will reach your beautiful destination.

Let the child inside you be alive always. You may find so many people trying to suppress that child in you. But you keep it alive. Its OK to live your life without any tension and stress. Sometimes its even OK to give stress to some nasty people who make your life hell for no reason! Live and enjoy this moment. Let the world scream and  pull you down, but you don't worry. Live your life to the fullest.

Let the coming year bring lots of Happines, good health and fortune. Let's hope not to see anymore corona waves. Let's stay happy and make each one happy! Happy new year 2022!






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