Things to learn in your 30's

Three decades passed and I feel the most stressful amongst them is turning 30. You are old enough to learn valuable lessons from your life and young enough to celebrate from those mistakes! Let's see a few things which I learned in my 30's. 

1. You learn that having a huge friend circle is not important. Having few friends who are best for your mental health matters.

2. Nobody can ruin your mental health better than your family. They got the key to hurt you and know that you will never react. Why? Because we are from a generation where relationships matter most.

3. No matter how much you try, you will always be misunderstood for speaking the truth.

4. For some, they may have everything they dreamed of but still struggle for peace.

5. Money is always important. It's always satisfying if you can pay your own bills. 

6. You are dwindling between an era where real people aren't liked but fake people reach heights.

7. Goodness always pays heavy prices.

8. You start liking your own silence because you don't have worthy people who understands you.

9. Love is not important in marriage but respect and trust is.

10. The eldest daughter is the most misunderstood person in every family.

11. As years go by, you become the person whom you don't connect with. The people and the situations around you force you to be someone who you don't want to be. 

12. You can easily build a house, but it takes years to build a home.

13. If you speak against things which bothers you, you aren't selfish: you love yourself.

14. No matter how much you do for people, they will always find ways to find faults. So, don't trade yourself for anyone because it is not worth it. At the end you will be hurted by the most loved person!

15. I am at a stage where I fear of talking. Because when I talk many of them think I am arguing and the rest of them aren't even bothered to hear. 

16. The kind of life partner decides your entire life. The best gift a parent can give their children is best education and a good life partner(in case of arranged marriage).

17. Thinking about the past never solves any problems. Thinking about the future never lets us to live happily. So, always live in the present. Kya pata kal ho na ho!!

18. Kindness is only for reels not for real. Because followers matters rather than real feelings!

19. First love is always special and hard to forget. You might never experience that feeling again ever in life. 

20. You can stay with a person for many years and still fail to understand each other. That's perfectly alright but what to do it hurts isn't it?

21. Be the best example for your children. By giving a good upbringing, you are putting their future into safe place.

22. Never fight or give explanations to any relationship where you aren't valued or heard.

23. Don't try to understand everyone and don't expect everyone to understand you.

24. If you have a single friend with you who won't judge you, then consider yourself as the richest person.

25. If someone takes your goodness and kindness for granted, don't feel bad! they just lost a gem!

26. Disappointments and failures are part of your life. Learn and move on.

27. Start right away. Don't think it's too late pr you are too old.

28. Some pains heal in silence.

29. Life is all about taking risks. Take that leap of faith! 

30. Death is end of life not failure!

What do you think? Do you also learned the same lessons, or can you add more to this list? If you are someone who is 30 just like me, enjoy reading this. If you are someone who isn't 30 yet, keep this handy with you. Thank you for reading!